A missed visit is not an accident you hope never happens. For a family in the middle of an arrangement it is a process, and the agency either runs that process on a clear path or your household runs it in a panic at the front door. Walk the path below before anyone is booked. The answers tell you which kind of agency you are dealing with.

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The call goes to a named person, not a menu.

Ask who receives the call when an aide is late or absent. Get a direct line and a backup line, and write both on the card you keep by the door. If the only answer is a general inbox, record that as a finding.

The agency confirms the gap inside a stated window.

Ask how long they take to confirm that a visit has been missed, not merely late. Ask them to say the window out loud on the first call, then find it in the paperwork. A good agency tells you what time it has, what it is doing about it, and when you will hear next.

The replacement is named, not promised.

'We are working on it' is not coverage. Coverage is a name, a start time, and a way for you to confirm arrival. Ask for all three before you hang up.

The stand-in can follow the plan without calling you.

A substitute may never have worked in your home. Keep the task list and the household notes current so the stand-in knows the entry routine, the tasks in scope, and who to call. Health questions go to the family's doctor, not to the person on shift.

The miss is logged and the record is closed.

Write down the day and time the visit was missed, who called whom, and when coverage was confirmed. Ask whether you can see that log later. An agency that keeps a clean log can show you the pattern. An agency that keeps none has given you the answer.

What to get in writing

  • A direct line for the coordinator and a backup line.
  • The confirmation window for a missed visit, stated out loud and then written down.
  • The name, start time, and arrival check for any replacement.
  • Access to the log of missed visits.

Run this path on the first call. If an agency goes quiet on any step, that silence is a finding, and you should record it as one.