Visits rarely jump to the wrong schedule overnight. They slide a few minutes at a time. The arrival moves from the agreed hour to a little later because of traffic. The visit ends early once because an errand ran long. A neighbour covers one morning and nobody writes it down. Each change looks small. After a month, the written plan and the real week no longer match, and nobody can say when it happened.
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Keep one page of the agreed plan
Write the agreed start time, end time, and days on one page. Put it where every adult can see it. This page is the baseline. Without it, drift has nothing to be measured against.
Check the week against the page
- Compare actual arrival and departure times with the page, at least once a week.
- Ask the agency for its visit log, and keep your own short notes if you are there in person.
- Note every visit that ends early, and find out why.
- Note every visit that runs long, and check whether anyone agreed to it.
- Notice who now sends the schedule. If the person sending it has changed, ask why.
Questions to ask the agency
Ask these before you sign, and get the answers in writing.
- How do you record a late arrival, and who in the family is told?
- Who approves a change to the schedule, and how is that approval recorded?
- What happens when the usual caregiver cannot make the usual time?
- How often do you review the plan with the family?
Drift is not always the agency's fault. The person receiving care also has days that change. When the week changes, write the change on the page the same day. Then decide whether the plan needs to change with it, rather than letting the visits quietly change instead.