The most common agency failure is not dramatic. It is a new caregiver who arrives, looks at the routine, and quietly does it differently. Nobody called you. The office thinks the handover went fine. Your household absorbs the gap in small ways every visit until someone notices.

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What a quiet swap looks like

The face at the door is new, and nobody told you why. The new person asks questions the plan already answers. A task that always happened gets skipped, or a task nobody asked for appears. The door code is different. The lunch is in a different place. Each detail is small. Together they mean the handover did not happen.

Check the handover on the first visit

Stay in the home for the first visit with a new caregiver if you can. If you cannot, ask the caregiver directly what they were told before they came. Ask them to name their first task, and to name anything they were told is not theirs. Compare the answers with the plan you hold.

Ask the office for the handover in writing

Ask the agency to confirm any staff change in writing before the new person arrives. The note should name the caregiver, the start day, and what was passed on. If the agency says it will call, ask for a short written summary after the call. Verbal handovers drift.

Watch the first few visits

Track three things after any change. Did every task on the plan happen? Did anything new appear? Did the caregiver ask a question the plan should have answered? Write each one down. A single slip is normal. The same slip twice means the handover did not reach the new person.

What to do when it breaks

Call the office the same day. Name the task, the date, and the gap. Ask for a fix with a date attached. If the office cannot say when the fix will happen, you have found out something about the agency, and that belongs in your file.